Monday 29 February 2016

LOST!


Writing after months! After my trip from Madhya Pradesh, I hardly got any time to write stuff for you guys! So today I finally got some time. This is how we are getting lost. I will come straight to the point. Also to note, this is my personal opinion, do not take it as an offence. Personally I don't feel we are able to understand the concept of the word called 'ROMANCE'. Rather, I'll even state I am not sure we are capable of loving someone accepting their flaws. The reason I posted that picture is because, we as a generation have failed to understand LOVE. All we care about is how we look on Facebook with each other. Virtual communication has taken place instead of real life communication. Liking towards someone is, keeping your phone aside and listening to them, talking to them with complete attention. Maybe romance still exists, but people fail to find it now!

Look at our parents. They fight, don't they? Do they leave each other for silly reasons? Do they make it public unlike some couples these days who like to post everything out in public. How did our parents understand the term 'adjustment' ?  I often keep saying this, when you're with someone; you need to accept them with their flaws. No one is perfect and no one is going to be perfect. Do not leave a person just because they have flaws. We compare due to social media. We want a life which they live, we want the clothes which they wear, we want the love they receive from their lovers. So your life is a waste? Really? Is it? You all are different characters here, how can you compare yourself with others? Why cannot one stay happy and satisfied?

Options. Choices. Lots of choices. Yes, unfortunately I hate to say this, but we are always in the need of a better choice. Even if we have someone-committed,we keep looking for a better choice than this. I am not stating this on my own terms, I have seen people suffering in our generation. It's like you have a yummy dish in your hand, but you still want a better dish than that. The fact is you've got your main course, but you still keep searching for starters. 

COMPARE. COMPARE. COMPARE. Stop comparing! You don't need something more. This is why you break up. Accept each other, if you're hating me already till now then take the example of your parents. They have stayed with each other for so many years, and I have seen them happy with each other. So won't they be having fights? Their generation witnessed so many love marriages and affairs. So don't you think it is time for us to find ourselves? To find the lost romance? We want to date, but we don't want to commit. We want one night-stands, but no relationships. You have to screw up something always? Do you? Why can't you just for a change think that, no matter what happens we are going to stick with each other.

We sure know how to date. But we did forgot to love each other. It's time to find the romance again!





























7 comments:

  1. your words are amazing....the way you give out ( Jeya Raman rajan )

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  2. So when are you going to start ur lovestory...!!! :-P

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    1. Which love story are you talking about, sir? :3
      If there is any guy, ask him to start. :P

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  3. @sanika m proud of u :) u r amezing

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