Nurture your relationship!

Be it Carrie Bradshaw (Sarah Jessica Parker) from Sex and the City, or be it Aisha Banerjee from bollywood flick Wake Up Sid! Relationships aren't that easy thing, are they?

Well, yes they are if you handle them wisely. Imagine you are surrounded by many people right now and they are these fellows are close to you, they always come up to you taking their problems, and you be like annoyed. Yes, each and every freak here has problems! 

Let's just believe you are god, and I thought of helping them so writing this one. So here's to people who are having problems in their relationships or you are trying to save your relation.

1.Space: One person in your relationship needs alot of emotional space. Give them the amount of time if they want to stay away from you and everyone. Don't keep nagging them by continuous texts and phone calls. World ain't coming to an end. Just be patient till they contact you themselves. You know, patience and time heal everything! :) So huhahh,.. stay calm and understand them.

2.Create a vacuum so that YOUR PARTNER has something to step into. It will feel strange and uncomfortable, but it is necessary discomfort. If your partner does not participate in the relationship, he or she may look for more connection elsewhere.

3.Get help in learning how to stop taking up so much emotional space. Hire a good therapist or a relationship coach to work on this. You may also need help as a couple in learning how to share the emotional space and in teaching your partner how to take up more space.

4.Stop the drama. The key for both of you is to tone down all of your emotions, needs, wants, upsets, etc. The second key is to make sure YOUR PARTNER stays involved at all times. These steps may sound simple, but in fact are difficult to do. Get help from a coach or a therapist on how to stop the drama and balance YOUR RELATIONSHIP

Have self-respect, be on mutual terms and understandings and if one has decided to parted ways, don't force them to be with you. There's no worse thing than a forceful relationship. Keep them happy and be satisfied in what they give you. Do not expect. Remember, zero expectations leads to much and much more of happiness always! I don't know how but it does.
And lastly stay blessed. Be calm, be patient and things will be as you always wanted them to be. All the best to all couples out there! Cheers to you'll and as Justin Timberlake has said, Love's not a bad thing at all. :D 

Self realization!

Did you ever realize where do you stand actually and where do YOU imagine where you are? Start thinking about life a normal and natural way, life's just a simple struggle in your journey of reaching to your destination. I don't know about others, but many of my friends have come to me, asking for advice on their problems. I seriously ask you all, is this pain worth your happiness? Is this small some amount of pain worth you? Why do you get so low and negative about yourself? You yourself don't know how great you are and you just underestimate yourself! I am not saying that I am a perfect woman, Yes, I do have problems but I learned that worrying makes you far more worse than you can imagine! Hahaha! stop worrying about worthless things and start enjoying your life, and believe me, the things which you want really badly right now will return to you soon! Ok, now this process when you realize all this is called SELF REALIZATION process :D Just don't be over confident and don't have zero confidence too :) Be neutral and stay happy. You are amazing as you are, even you have flaws, people will criticize you no matter what. Let them do it, the community is never satisfied and yes Karma isn't a bitch! :P That's all for now.

Stay Tuned.
Sanica!